Please Don't Feed The Psychic...
Please don't feed the psychic or The Power Of Your Questions
For psychically oriented matters I can't stress enough the importance you must place on phrasing your questions. Regardless of the type of intuitive you choose from a Tarot reader to a Medium the more direct the question the more direct and effective the answer. When you are dealing with intuitives such as myself everything you say is being processed, especially phrases that are questions- even if they aren't your main question- they are still being processed and interpreted as this is simply how the intuitive mind works. This is why strong intuitives ask for no back story and direct questions only. For example if you contact an intuitive and you say the following:
"I'm having a lot of trouble in my life right now. My boyfriend just left me, my cat may be ill and my best friend said, "It's all your fault." Who would do that? What I want to know is what is the next best step for me to take in my life?"
Every sentence leads the intuitive in a direction and they will see your troubles, your boyfriend, your cat and your best friend. This would be known as "feeding the psychic." My abilities are not restricted to the person I am talking to so it is not uncommon if another person or name is mentioned in a reading that I will get a message for them or someone associated with them that my client does not even know. When you ask in passing, "Who would do that." I will get an actual answer. Remaining aware of your goals for your reading is important giving back story and presenting your situation is the least effective way to ask a question. Lead with a direct question, get my answer and then validate or fill in details.